Friday, December 23, 2011
Crap!
Monday, December 12, 2011
Oh,No!
Thursday, December 08, 2011
NIght off!
Sunday, December 04, 2011
I'm tired!
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Rare day!
- Boiled chicken and took it off bones ( for cornbread dressing on Saturday)
- Washed clothes
- Paid all bills
- Went to Wal-Mart to buy stuff for our adopted soldiers in Afghanistan
- Went to Post Office
- Took cans to be recycled
- Installed new cordless vac in garage
- Toasted pecans for my world famous pralines
- Went to bank
I am feeling rushed to get things done because my brother is leaving to go to Branson tomorrow and I will feel compelled to go to Mom's in the morning to walk her and visit with her because that's what he does and then be back there at 3P.M. for my regular shift. When he is here, he is always there when the caregiver leaves until I get there. I will have to get there at 3 this week. Mom will miss him so much while he is gone and I will also want to pop in on the caregiver since she will know he is gone and won't be popping in. I live about 20 minutes from Mom, so it is not like popping in next door. On Saturday, I have our annual neighborhood brunch at 11 and then at 5:30 I have my annual Sunday School Christmas Party. I have someone hired to come in for my shift, but I must get in Mom's walk and a visit with her. Last year when he was gone to Branson, Mom was in the nursing home here in my town....so it was easy for me to go at lunch when my brother usually went and go back again at night when I always went. It's different this year, but I am glad she is home.
Friday, November 25, 2011
Holy Crap!
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving!
Monday, November 07, 2011
Uh OH!
Mom's sister had a stroke last night. Doesn't seem to be as bad as Mom's was as there is no evidence of bleeding in the brain. Doc thinks it may have been an embolic stroke which originates in the heart and moves to block an artery to the brain, but does not go into the brain. She is in ICU today. I told Mom last night, but I had to because her phone kept ringing, so she knew something was going on. She was able to sleep after I told her that it wasn't as bad as they had first thought. She has right side weakness, but is not talking yet.
Friday, November 04, 2011
Most excellent day!
Mom |
Her sister |
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Thursday, October 27, 2011
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
It's been a while!
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Monday, October 03, 2011
Good night, Mom!
Every night I put my mom to bed and tonight I remembered to turn my camera on on the iphone. She says a bunch of stuff every night that I can't decipher!
New wheels!
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Great day!
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Mom's New Ride!
This used to be our pond. The drought has rendered it almost dry. My brother has been on the tractor cleaning it all out and making improvements to it. Mom was shocked to see this!
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Big week!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Monday, September 05, 2011
Happy Labor Day!
I hope that you are lucky enough to have a job to be off from today!
Woo Hoo!
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Thank God!
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Sorry!
Saturday, August 13, 2011
What a week!
I enjoyed my one night away in a beautiful resort in Lake Charles and getting to see my adopted family! Had not seen the kids in over two years. The kids enjoyed the lazy river and we enjoyed the beautiful setting. After going out to dinner, I came back to the hotel, stepped in the casino and put in $20 and took out $58...went to my room!
Tuesday, August 09, 2011
Time for an update!
Tomorrow, I am taking a day off and driving down to Lake Charles to meet up with a friend from South Carolina. Looking forward to a night at L'Auberge du lac Resort.
Saturday, July 30, 2011
It's a "God thing"!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Another HIccup!
On a personal note, I have been using my Wii fit for about a month and really feel better. It's amazing what regular exercise can do to improve overall attitude and health. It's too hot to walk outside. It's too hot to even go outside! The yoga section always makes me feel better even if it is all I do.
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
MIssing in Action!
Didn't realize it's been so long since an update. Mom is back in the hospital with UTI on IV antibiotics. Been there since Sunday. She has taken a few steps backwards physically. Can't walk but a few steps with help.
On top of that her car broke down on the way to the hospital, the sewer has been stopped up again and just about everything has gone to hell in a handbasket, whatever that means! The car is being towed tomorrow. The sewer had to be dug up again by my brother and the plumber called again. Once again the caregivers had been putting those damn moistened wipes that I buy for their convenience in the toilet. We told them not to do that and also put a sign on them and they did it anyway. Well, they won't anymore because I removed them from the house. I should tell them that every time we have to call a plumber, we use more of Mom's money. When her money is gone, so are their JOBS!
Sunday, July 10, 2011
New Ceiling Fan
New Ceiling Fan
Just testing out how to do some stuff in Blogger. Not exactly planning to install a ceiling fan like this!!!
Wednesday, July 06, 2011
Uh Oh!
Monday, July 04, 2011
Saturday, July 02, 2011
Wow! Much needed break!
Yesterday, I got some solar screens installed on my huge bedroom windows. This morning I really slept in because those screens had it really dark in my room, but I can now open the blinds in the daytime and not have so much heat come in as well. Soooooo...overall, it's been a good 24 hours. Back to the grind today of doing my part to care for Mom.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Smooth sailing....
Friday, June 17, 2011
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
It's hot!
Friday, June 10, 2011
WooHoo!
I had a caregiver come in at 5 today and give me the night off...first one since October 29th. The evening was spent going to a grocery store in Bossier City and Chik-fil-A! Big night on the town, but I was glad just to go do something by myself. My friends have trouble getting together......one had to put her husband in the nursing home (he's much older than her), another has her husband in the hospital, another has her mother living with her, another is out of town caring for her mother-in-law, another is on stand-by waiting to be called to New Hampshire where her sister is in bad shape...another has her nephews here from Maui......and it just goes on and on....so it isn't just me that is tied down!!!!! I even felt guilty that a stranger was putting my mom to bed tonight. That's my job and I have done it every night even when she was in the hospital and the rehab. I have to make sure she is comfortable and tell her good night and that I love her. I told her that before I left her this evening, but it wasn't the same as telling her after I put her to bed.
Friday, June 03, 2011
Gotta make changes!
Monday, May 30, 2011
Friday, May 27, 2011
Still not quite normal!
Monday, May 23, 2011
Happy camper!
Friday, May 20, 2011
Aye, Carumba!
This has been a most difficult week...way harder than I ever expected it would be. So much so that my brother and I are looking for Certified Nurse Assistants to hire. I am exhausted and have lost all my zeal for anything. I am not trained to care for anyone, but especially my mom who has incontinence of the bowel and the bladder. I did not know this before we got her home. There are two upsides to the whole thing...she is happy and I have lost 8 pounds since Monday. Along with the rest of my zeal, my appetite left, too! That part is cool. I am kind of hoping for the end of the world rumors to be true tomorrow.