Monday, November 02, 2009

Perfect goodbye to Daddy...

We laid my dad to rest yesterday in a beautiful little cemetery down in the country with my mom's family. Since he helped start the volunteer fire department in his little town and my brother is currently the fire chief, a fire truck led the processional to the cemetery. As we passed the local post office, we saw that the American flag was flying at half mast in honor of my dad. That was a very moving sight. The service was absolutely perfect. I would not have changed one thing or one word that my high school friend and neighbor said about my dad or one thing his minister said. Both of them spoke so eloquently and I had made a CD over a year ago of Larry Gatlin singing,"In the Garden" which was played during the service. That song always makes me think of Dad.Dad had told me a few weeks ago what song he wanted sung at his funeral and who he wanted to sing it. It was exactly as he had requested. I have brought my dad's ambien home with me and tonight I am hoping for some deep sleep.

3 comments:

Linda said...

I am sure it was a beautiful service. Everyone in your family must be just worn out. I hope you know how sorry I am for your loss. You will continue to be in my daily prayers

Pat Austin said...

This post made me cry. I'm so sorry for your loss, once again. I hope you get some needed rest and find love and support from your wonderful friends and neighbors!

Sandy said...

Thanks to both of you for the kind words. I miss my daddy.